
Dear Friends,
These are the passions in my life which have no measure: empowering others, honoring creation, making beautiful music, building community…and my family is equal to them all. Jewels of Elul has become a remarkable balancing point in my life allowing me to empower, honor, create and build.
And boy did we build! We more then doubled our daily subscribers and the Jewels were read on over 50 websites around the country including The JTA, Huffington Post and URJ.
My sincere thanks to the 29 contributors who gave us the wonderful content for this years Jewels. Gratitude to our generous sponsors, Rabbis Lowenstein, Wolpe and Greestein, The Marcus Foundation, The Milken Archive of Jewish Music and Scott Weinstein and Char Lovelady.
A huge shout out to our 29 remarkable Jewel contributors, question writers, editors, artists, proof readers and compilers. If you have a minute send them a note of thanks. You would be amazed how much a simple act of kindness can do.
This year we were very excited to add two new musical components to the Jewel project. A free Amazon Sampler CD which is still one of the top 50 downloads on Amazon and new music from the The Milken Archive of Jewish Music.
Finally, please read the following note from Rabbi Mark Borovitz, spiritual leader of the Beit T’shuvah recovery house. His organization was the beneficiary for this year’s Jewels of Elul. If you have been moved by even one of the Jewels this year, I request that you make a donation to support the life saving work of Beit T’shuvah.
And, one shameless plug. For any of you in the Southern California Area please join us for the Jewish County Fair on Octoboer 16th. Good eats. Great Music. Rides and Farm Animals (it is a County Fair after all!)
Shana Tova. to a very good year!
Craig Taubman

Dear Jewels Readers,
Thank you so much for your support of Jewels of Elul and Beit T’Shuvah. We are so grateful that you are spreading the message of T’Shuvah and Beit T’Shuvah.
We need your help. While we covered the cost of the printing and mailing of Jewels of Elul, Beit T’Shuvah needs money to be able to continue to serve people who need help recovering from a myriad of addictive dis-eases without regard to their financial condition. Beit T’Shuvah has kept mission over money for the past 25 years and our population has increased from 3 people to 165 people! Our budget has grown from 25,000.00 to 7 million in these past 25 years. We continue to help people from all over the country and even some from out of the United States.
Every dollar counts. We need to raise 4 Million dollars this year in order to meet our budget. We are asking all of you, 20,000 people, to send us at least 18.00. This will raise at least $360,000.00 for us to use to help people who have no money!
Our tradition says T’Filah, T’Shuvah and T’Zedakah avert the decrees and we are asking you to do T’Zedakah this year and help people Recover their Passion and Discover their Purpose.You matter. Make a difference and save a life here.
G’Mar Hatima Tova,
Rabbi Mark Borovitz
Blessed are you, Adonai our G*d, Who illuminates the whole world with His glory.
With these words we close our eyes and go into the dark. This is the end of the blessing Ha–Mapil, said after reciting the bedtime Shema.
How strange – that as our conscious life goes dark, we thank G*d for illumination! Ah, but this is the blessing before dreams, which show us our lives lit up from within.
Dreams are one–sixtieth of prophecy, says the Talmud. Yes! Dreams pull information from the future, messages from the soul, to help us fulfill the promises we made to G*d long ago.
Every night our souls go into the space of All–Potential, magnetizing the divine energies that yearn to embody in us. They appear as images which we weave into dreams. Dreams bring us healing, comfort, challenge, mystery, and angels to help us on our way.
As we come to the end of the potent month of Elul, we also go into the dark. The time before the New Moon gives us at least two days of darkness, until that sliver of light appears just after sunset on Rosh Hashanah. What may dreams bring on those days?
Let us open to our dreams, and humbly pray for light and inspiration for the year to come. May we fulfill our dreams and our prayers, for the good, that the whole world be illuminated with G*d’s glory.
Tamar Frankiel is Dean of Academic Affairs and Professor of Comparative Religion at the Academy for Jewish Religion California. www.ajrca.org
In 1991 my parents, lifelong members of the Philadelphia Federation of Teachers, were taken to Israel with the Union president, a gentleman named Steinberg, on his annual bonds mission. My parents are not Jewish. I imagine Mr. Steinberg had worked through all the Jews and gotten down to the Irish–Italian Catholics on his staff.
At the time, I was attempting to “Pray without ceasing,” an idea I had picked up from Franny Glass, a member of J.D. Salinger’s imitable Glass family, and the main character of the “Franny” half of “Franny and Zooey.” Twelve years prior, I had stopped drinking and started searching for a way to be in a relationship with G–d.
When I heard about their trip, I begged them to bring me a rosary from Jerusalem, which I imagined to be silver with black onyx beads. My aunt, who had been a nun, had a similar rosary that had been worn by 50 years of worship. I imagined if I had one like that, I would be spiritual too. Though it was probably the 50 years of faithful prayer that gave her rosary its beauty, not the materials it was made from.
My parents returned and gave me a box. “Kind of big for a rosary, “ I thought, “but okay.” I opened it to find a gold and silver chanukiah (the eight–branched menorah used for Chanukah.) “Very nice, but why?”
All I could think was, “But I’m not Jewish, nor are you.” That, and “Where is my rosary?” Sure, I’d been infatuated by Jewish things and people for most of those years of searching. But I’d never thought to make it my path.
Less than two years after I was given that gift, and every year since, I’ve been lighting Chanukah candles in that chanukiah, as a Jew. Sharing the light my parents shared with me.
Yisrael Campbell is your average Irish–Italian Catholic kid from Philly. Currently he is a Comic, Sober Alcoholic and Orthodox Jew. www.yisraelcampbell.com
I seek light by seeking lightness. So much of life can be freighted, fretted. There is a discipline in finding the buoyancy in at least one moment every single day. I’ve had to learn lightness–how to find meaning, levity, even exuberance–in noticing the simplest seconds. There’s work in that: discovering how the tiniest joys can lift and shimmer:
· A friend on a porch.
· My family of four reading together in the same room.
· Errands with my daughter.
· Central Park on a scooter with my son.
· Wine with my husband on a rare date.
· The entire Sunday Book Review.
· One line of Torah, debated with smart people.
· Yoga to Pandora.
· Rainy days when I’m on deadline.
· Sunny days when I’m not.
· A fast sled, though I look stupid screaming.
· A tennis game, though I talk myself into double–faults.
· My daughter ladling the 6 a.m. breakfast for the homeless at our synagogue.
· My son’s goodnights.
· My brother’s ribbing.
· Watching my parents with my children.
· Watching my children with my twin sister’s children.
· Warm cider donuts without guilt.
The list is treacly but true. (Admit it: there’s truth in treacle.) Perhaps it’s not revelatory to learn there’s sweetness in minutiae, but I do think the revelation is in the difficulty: of noticing the smallest pleasures, and discovering they’re enough.
Abigail Pogrebin is the author of Stars of David: Prominent Jews Talk About Being Jewish. www.abigailpogrebin.com
For the past few months, I have thought considerably about many of the blessings recited at the start of morning prayers, as found in a traditional Jewish prayerbook.
In particular, I have wondered what precisely we hope to be thankful for in the blessing to God, “who gives sight to the blind.” This is seemingly in recognition of a process through which God continues a tradition from the very start of Genesis, of exposing the brightness of light from the darkest darkness of night.
Practically speaking, how frequently do blind people regain eyesight?
The Talmud in Berakhot 60b explains that this blessing of “Pokeach Ivrim” (lit. who gives sight to the blind) is to be recited upon waking in appreciation for having been able to open our eyes in the morning, reflecting on the time of our daily transition from the world of blindness to the world of sight.
On a deeper level, however, I believe that this blessing can offer not only a recognition of a miracle already fulfilled, but also can serve as a personal request to enlighten the activities throughout the remainder of the day. We ask for the strength, the ability, and most importantly the opportunity for us to open our eyes, and we ask that those aspects of our lives that had previously been darkened and hidden, be revealed to allow a glimpse into the light of clarity, now and forever.
Menachem Butler is the co–editor of the Seforim blog, devoted to Jewish bibliography and literature. www.seforim.blogspot.com
It was early September. My husband and I went on a high–speed car chase around the valleys and mountains of the Grand Tetons to capture a glimpse of the setting sun.
With five minutes to spare before the spray of light turned dark, we found a spot nestled in a valley on the side of the road with no mountain crag to obscure our view. Simply the horizon, the setting sun, and majestic colors of miracle and awe.
As we watched the spectacle before us, I heard a sound that I had never heard before. I rolled down the car window and saw hundreds of black birds that had come to nest for the night in a small grove of trees. The birds were barely visible except for a dance that looked like the shadow of wings and leaves fluttering against the dusk.
Out of the far distance, as if from thin air, appeared a solitary bird racing at what seemed like the speed of light toward the grove to join the others. As she landed on the treetop, birds fluttered, rising and settling until they all made room for the new arrival and found their place.
As the trees, leaves, and birds became mere dark silhouettes against the blackened sky, the sound of them became somehow louder. And as the sky grew darker and darker, the music brought light to my soul.
Black birds disappearing in the trees at night sing an eternal song, echoing a truth, a melody that is easily forgotten. Even in the darkness there is music. It is what makes us holy and good, moral and compassionate, fully alive, aware, kind.
That music is the sound of our humanity brushing up against our divinity.
Teach us, dear God, how to listen.
Karyn Kedar is a prolific writer and the rabbi of Congregation BJBE in Deerfield, Illinois. www.karynkedar.com
For good or bad, digital communication has revolutionized and transformed our lives. We are now not merely spectators, but active participants empowered to reflect what we see and feel. In the past, only a privileged few had the ability to influence mass media and movements. Nowadays, amateurs and casual users have the ability to contribute content and impact society.
The seminal founders of photography found true meaning through everyday encounters. Alfred Stieglitz photographed his lovers, Henri Cartier–Bresson tried to freeze a “decisive moment.” Ansel Adams studied nature; for Louis Hein it was social reform, and Robert Frank looked for meaning in everyday American life.
You could believe that the photographic image was a fraction of a moment based in reality. But with the new digital technology, things have shifted and photography can no longer claim its old hold on reality. Photography lost some of its imbedded innocence. Nothing can be trusted, since almost everything can be manipulated.
The art of seeking light, as a fragment of what’s real and true, is less certain or convincing. Today’s photography can either shed light or obscure it. It has taken me a long time to understand that, as I am trying to interpret light reflecting off different surfaces, I am actually seeking meaning and truth.
Zion Ozeri is a world–renowned photographer, exploring the Jewish experience. www.ZionOzeri.com www.JewishLens.org
I lost my vision gradually throughout my childhood. In 1968, when I went to college, I was totally blind. The years since have been blessed with great people, with myriad challenges, and with remarkable opportunities. During these years, I have also been blessed with a story from the Bible, to which I have turned many times to remind me that seeing–true seeing, spiritual seeing, the seeing that matters–is seeing beyond.
In the final chapter of Deuteronomy, we are on Mount Nebo. Moses is about to die. God shows Moses what he would not be able to see with his physical eyes–the entire Promised Land. Rabbinic midrash on these verses is disappointing, emphasizing how Moses, unable to accept that he is barred from entering the Promised Land, desperately, persistently, creatively pleads for his life. This midrashic tradition paints Moses as dying, bitter, unsatisfied with his portion, begging for more.
These midrashim miss the point, that God grants Moses on his death a great gift, perhaps the greatest of all gifts for Moses or any of us, the gift of spiritual vision. What God shows Moses on his death is what all of Moses’ long life of struggle and suffering is for. The power and meaning of this text is the power and meaning of the Bible. What we see when we see beyond what our physical eyes can see is that what we do matters. What we see then is that how we choose to live life makes all the difference, and that it is up to us to act in such a way that our actions lift and carry future generations toward their Promised Lands. So my prayer for all of us during this inward–looking month of Elul, regardless of how we pass or fail our eye exam this year, is that God grant each of us the gift of spiritual vision–that sees beyond our times, that sees beyond our selves, that sees beyond.
Dennis Shulman is a rabbi and clinical psychologist/psychoanalyst in New Jersey. His most recent book is The Genius of Genesis. www.DennisShulman.com
“You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. You make me happy, when skies are grey…” Many years ago, when my children were young, I used to sing this folk song. I wanted them to believe that each of them was my sunshine, the focal light of my universe. And I also needed to reassure and comfort myself in the simplicity of their being my shining suns.
In just a few weeks, as we usher in the Kol Nidrei service, we will chant the words of Psalm 97, ”Or zaruah latzadik–Light is sown for the righteous, and joy for those whose hearts are true.” Striving for a true heart, believing in my path, has brought me so much joy. I recently left the pulpit after more than 30 years, to help shape the future of the Cantorate, and this has enabled me to stretch and challenged me to redefine my path. There is a new rhythm to my days when I find the sunshine in my interactions.
The simplicity and ease of serenading my babies is difficult to replicate in adult relationships. Yet, as Yom Kippur comes closer and I begin to think about asking friends and relatives for forgiveness, I can lighten the task by imagining each person as a sun, as someone creating happiness. While I don’t think I will sing as I seek teshuvah, I will rely on my truths to guide me.
Life’s music should not be taken for granted.
Hazzan Nancy Abramson is the Director of Cantorial Education at the H.L. Miller Cantorial School of the Jewish Theological Seminary. www.jtsa.edu
I am often asked, “What makes a great entrepreneur?” My answer describes someone with an explosive combination of ideas, vision, drive, persistence, and something nearly impossible to describe—a spark, a light. Our world advances because of human beings who are willing to take risks in pursuit of their ideas and their vision, who possess the “light” that allows them to turn their vision into our reality. I do not think it is a coincidence that, of all the inventions of mankind, the light bulb is the symbol we equate to ideas and innovation.
“The spark of an idea,” “the brightest mind,” “glowing with excitement,” and more—light symbolizes progress, light represents passion, and light shines upon those who are willing to lead the way.
But to find the light of innovation, of entrepreneurship, you must be prepared for all levels of luminescence. Webster’s Dictionary defines an entrepreneur as someone who “assumes risk,” and with risk often comes failure. Those who pursue their ideas must understand that failure might be the outcome. The light becomes dim, people doubt you, and you doubt yourself. But, like the eternal light of Judaism, humankind has a light that does not go out, even if no one else sees it. “Overnight successes” are generally decades in the making, and it is the eternal light of belief in oneself that keeps the passion alive through years of solitary effort. It is seeing light in others, and exploring the light in myself, that makes me an entrepreneur and gives me such happiness in challenging the status quo, asking the question, “What if…?” We all have this light within us. It is our calling to let our unique light shine, stoke the flames of our ideas, and persist in the glow so that we can each make our worlds, and the world, a better place.
Bradley Keywell is a co–founder of Lightbank, Groupon, Echo Global Logistics, MediaBank, and many other ventures. www.bradkeywell.com
To understand the light, we must understand the dark. For me, the dark is what people experience when they have lost their way on the long road of life. It happens to all of us. We lose our center and feel we have nothing to lean on. We do not see the way to the future and our very presence feels fragile as we lose our connection to our roots.
But it is important to note that at these times, we find ourselves in darkness, not blackness. In the darkness, we can still see shadows. We need determination, perseverance, and a willingness to get bumped and bruised, but the darkness allows us to pursue a path forward.
I am especially fortunate. If I find myself stumbling into the darkness, I know what to do. I access my “light seeker” – music. Not just any music. I am best able to seek the light through folk music. Folk music has the unique ability to connect people to their roots, to their history, to their culture. It connects me to what it is to be an Israeli, to be Jewish. I am connected to my ancestors in Europe’s shtetls and to ancient ancestors on the shore of the Red Sea.
Music gives me other connections as well. I travel the world, and music brings extraordinary people into my life, from Mali to Colombia to Russia to China. Their energy fuels my spirit and keeps me moving forward on my life’s path.
All of these connections give me strength; they bring fire to my soul.
And where there is fire there is light.
Idan Raichel is one of Israel’s most popular singer songwriters known for his distinctive fusion of electronics, Middle Eastern and Ethiopian music. www.idanraichelproject.com
Though we might believe that we always want to seek the light, the truth is that sometimes we need a break. I learned this while visiting Iceland in June, when the sun barely sets for three hours a day. While it was great having a longer day—we enjoyed broad daylight at the beach at 11 p.m.–it was not always ideal. The sun was so bright at 3 a.m. that we needed to wear eyeshades at night to get any sleep.
On the other hand, when winter arrives in Iceland, the people live in darkness for all but a few hours during the day. While this might be very depressing, darkness holds its own beauty. At the darkest time of year, you can see the magnificent Northern Lights paint a rainbow of color across the night sky. The Northern Lights are invisible during the summer months.
Day and night, darkness and light are both equally important parts of the cycle of our lives. Without light, we might curl up in despair. Without darkness, our bodies would not have respite to replenish themselves.
I seek God in darkness as well as in light. When times are dark, I pray that God is at my side, guiding my steps, holding me close, assuring me that, as day follows night, this darkness will come to an end. When times are bright, I remember to be grateful and to bring compassion to those whose lives are lived in shadow.
I think Cole Porter said it best: Night and day, you are the One.
Barbara Rosman Penzner is a rabbi serving Reconstructionist Temple Hillel B’nai Torah in Boston, day and night. www.templehbt.org
From the time I was a child, my parents insisted that our family had a responsibility to make life better for those around us. Whether I was following my father on his medical rounds, marching with my mother for civil rights, or working as a counselor in a camp for kids with special needs, there has never been a time when I haven’t been trying to “seek the light” of a better world.
I have had the privilege to serve two Presidents of the United States and to represent the 5th District of Illinois in the United States Congress. Now the people of Chicago have entrusted me with the responsibilities of Mayor.
My goal has been the same wherever I have served: to create a safe and meaningful place for the next generation. Every child has the right to safe streets, a secure home life and a quality education. Anyone in public service – anywhere in the world – must approach the task of seeking light by doing his or her utmost to secure those rights.
I serve all of the people of Chicago, and I take special pleasure in the ways each community shines its own light. Shabbat dinner with my family helps to remind me that my public service finds its roots in the lights that shine on our table.
Rahm Emanuel is the current Mayor of Chicago and the former White House Chief of Staff to President Barack Obama. mayor.cityofchicago.org
It was dawn. My mother and I watched silently as the sun rose on a new day, the seventh day of my brother’s Shiva. My brother, Nadav Elad, had been an IDF soldier in one of the elite units of the paratroopers.
We should have hated the sun, lighting up a world that seemed so broken to us now. Yet my mother gently laid her eyes on the view unfolding through the light, and with deep gratitude gave thanks for its existence. Light, she said, had witnessed Nadav’s presence in this world, as we have. And so now we are partners, holding his memory together and testifying that he had lived under the sun.
“Through which part can a person see? From within the black of the eye” taught our ancestors. The art of light is our ability to see through darkness. Eye, Ayin in Hebrew, is where we meet Oni, the poverty of this world. But it is also where we meet Aniah, the answers to it. Through darkness we see the edge of light, through brokenness the edge of vision. We pray for us and for our human community as a whole that our eyes penetrate reality and beyond it see a new horizon.
It was dawn. Hugging, my mother and I thanked God for the light He brought upon us, now lighting the pathways where Nadav had lived. That day, God’s words “Let there be light” that had illuminated a universe, traversed the darkness and illuminated us, creating a new world within us, a reason to live, to love. The sun came out upon our heads as we joined our voice to the eternal One forever whispering through all the alleys of existence. We whispered for my brother’s soul, for every human soul: Let there be light.
Rabbi Tamar Elad–Appelbaum is Associate Dean of the Schechter Rabbinic Seminary in Jerusalem. www.schechter.edu
Dear God: I’m sad…I’m seeking light. Why? Isn’t everyone seeking light? No. I am. I prefer to be happy. I understand what you seek. You don’t, though. I’m not seeking light? Dude: My eternal flame dances in your heart, emanating from your eyes and fingers, radiating through your voice, your action and every loving intention (lightning and thunder)…my light surrounds you as a glowing penumbral testament to the primordial atomic flash point from which you and all life promulgates eternal. [thunderous echo]. Whoa…That’s cool. But I feel awful. It’s the worst. Almost. It’s gotta get worser. Why? You’re running from it. But when I’m in pain, I’ll do anything not to feel it. You’re gonna have to spend some time with this darkness. Okay…. OW…. How now? Really bad…And now? Same. PLEASE…. GOD…. …And …Now…? …Shifting…. Keep going. Allow me to keep showing you. Give me time to reveal light to you, in ways you would never even have known to ask for. You’re telling me that to seek light, I have to feel like crap? Sometimes, yes. So to seek light, I must seek darkness…. No – allow it. I’m telling you to use the darkness as a doorway into the light that’s already there. Whatever’s in the way, embrace. It carries a message. A sign? Barring appendicitis, there’s usually only one core message: remember Me. Sincerely, humbly, ask for my help. Allow me to show you your deeper truth. And as light comes…let it consume you.
Billy Jonas is a composer, singer–songwriter and industrial re–percussionist who has enchanted and inspired folks from all walks of life for more than two decades, touching hearts, souls, and minds worldwide. www.billyjonas.com
“God is the Light of the Heavens and the Earth.” Qur’an 24:35
This verse of the Holy Book of Muslims has been elucidated upon by Muslim scholars for generations. My explanation is decidedly more pedestrian. I write in the month of Ramadan, withholding myself from food, drink, gossip and speaking negatively of others. My tongue is practicing peace in this most blessed of months. These days even as a professor teaching at a theological school, no discussions resonate more with me than my conversations with my five–year–old.
As women we hold the hearts of our young ones dear to us, but often the raising of our children as spiritual beings is not honored or recognized. So back to my five–year–old. I explain God as Light to him. For God is unseen yet everywhere at once. He asks me, “How do we know God, Mama?” I tell him that this Light we seek is found by exercising the muscles of our heart to do good for others.
This weekend we went to fill bags for hungry people lining up at a mosque food pantry. I told my son, look deep in the eyes of the person you are handing the food to. When you see their face light up, your moment of connection to that person is where God is bringing your hearts together, even in the most brief moments. My baby tells me, “Mama when I help others, I feel good.” So I teach him to live life in service of others so that God becomes a constant companion here on Earth.
Najeeba Syeed–Miller, J.D. is Professor of Interreligious Education at Claremont School of Theology. www.twitter.com/najeebasyeed
President Reagan achieved peace through strength and restoration of the American dream. He believed in individual liberty and the natural rights of all men as endowed by our Creator.
And more. Ronald Reagan was a decent, winning, humble, and honorable man who practiced the politics of principled compromise and personal courtesy, rooted in his religious worldview.
In his farewell address, he recalled his major political theme, that America would forever be a Shining City on a Hill.
This symbolic image was first imagined by John Winthrop, the Governor of the Massachusetts Bay Colony, who, in citing the Sermon on the Mount, asserted back in 1620 that he was founding a new Zion, in the new world.
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hid. Nor do men light a lamp and put it under a bushel, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in Heaven.”
Ronald Reagan was inspired by this thread of connection to the seekers of light, to the leaders of new paths lit by reverence for the good, and to the glorious spirit that inspires Americans, still, to be a blessed nation, in a blessed land.
Michael Reagan, son of Ronald Reagan, and Larry Greenfield, are President and Founding Executive Director, respectively, of the Reagan Legacy Foundation.
Where can we who walk in darkness find brighter light? I suggest we look no further than to the preacher/poet, John Newton. He was a former slave trader who saw the light. Today he is best known as the composer of the hymn, Amazing Grace!
Again and again in the Bible, we read the invocation, “Let me find grace in thy sight, O Lord.” Find grace? Perhaps most of us wait for grace to find us. And often it does. When grace finds us, we come to see God’s sight is not the problem, but our insight: I was blind but now I see. But far better that we heed the words of the Bible and not wait for grace to find us. Far better to find grace, to seek the light.
During the years of my active ministry, the choir would mesmerize worship with an original choral masterpiece, “If it wasn’t for the grace of God.” I was not alone in being unable to resist the tears and to join the cheers in praise of the God of our weary years. Nor was William Wilberforce who in 1811, deeply influenced by John Newton, succeeded in getting the English Parliament to ban the slave trade. The choir is preaching of the disgrace of not accepting God’s grace.
‘Twas grace that drove Newton to tell his story, the unfolding saga of how suffering drove him to his Savior, how thirst drove him to living waters, how he found grace and sought the light.
All of us light–seekers join hands and hearts with John Newton in saying–
I am not what I ought to be. I am not what I wish to be.
But thanks to the grace of God, I am not what I used to be.
Rev. Cecil L. “Chip” Murray, is the John R. Tansey Chair in Christian Ethics and Professor of Religion at the University of Southern California. crcc.usc.edu
The seeking of spiritual light is gained through having faith and trust in God. Prayer provides the path, leading to inner strength and pushing us toward greater honesty with ourselves.
With honesty comes clarity, as we come to see the truth of our condition. We can then change what we can and accept what we can’t.
Whatever it is that you have, you must make work for you. In this way, we keep moving toward the light. When we minimize our own talents, when we envy what others have, when we give in to despair, we choose darkness. When we do so, we should always remember this is a choice, it is not destiny.
The light is always there if we have the courage to seek it. And, with faith and trust in God, we need never seek it alone.
Mary J. Blige has six Grammy awards, seven multi–platinum records and 15 years of love from the public, critics and fellow artists. www.maryjblige.com
In June of 2011 members of Jewish Social Justice Round Table
shared their ideas on the Art of Seeking Light:
Sometimes elusive, always there to be discovered. Stick with the task, elevate the vision.
Ruth Messinger, President, American Jewish World Service
Balance the ideal with the possible, dream big, breathe, pause and continue the climb.
Elissa Barrett, Jewish Funds for Justice/Progressive Jewish Alliance
Sometimes the light we yearn to see is not visible in the face of so much artificial light. You can see it if you look with your soul. You can see it if you open your heart.
Shifra Bronznick, Founding President, Advancing Women Professionals
Once you realize that darkness is only the negative space between lights, it’s easier.
Sammie Moshenberg, National Council of Jewish Women
Feeding hungry people, health care for all, education for those in need is a doorway to the light. Without the doorway there will only be darkness.
Steve Gutow, President and CEO, Jewish Council on Public Affairs
The most important thing about light, about wisdom, is that we can find it wherever we seek it—including, perhaps especially, within ourselves.
Mark Pelavin, Director of the Commission on Social Action of Reform Judaism
By your light we see light.
Rabbi Jennie Rosenn, Program Director, Nathan Cummings Foundation
Reflecting on our ancient text and our historic work, Jews must work in alliance with communities of color to address issues of economic justice and racial equality.
Vic Rosenthal, Executive Director, Jewish Community Action Minneapolis
When I think of light, I think of illumination and the compelling ways my life has been illuminated by seeking knowledge, justice, kindness, compassion and warmth.
Abby J. Leibman, President and CEO, Mazon
As we emerge, our strengths are revealed in the sunlight. We are not the victims—we are the survivors. We are not the rescued—we are the rescuers.
Naama Haviv, Assistant Director, Jewish World Watch
Look within, look outside, and reflect the sparks of light you find shining.
Josh Protas, Vice President, Jewish Council on Public Affairs
Be humble, listen, and learn, then actively pursue justice for all humankind.
Nancy K. Kaufman, CEO, National Council of Jewish Women
May a new light shine upon Zion and may we be worthy to have it shine on us all very soon. – Siddur
Rabbi David Rosenn, CEO, New Israel Fund
Yehi Or-Let there be Light.
L is for Light
That I give and receive
By teaching and sharing with others
As we search for what we believe.
Truth is: We all possess light, different kinds of light. Sometimes we share that light, sometimes we hide it, even from ourselves. Sometimes it’s hard to access…yet, every single day we face a remarkable challenge to let that light, our light, shine forth. Bringing light into the world is as powerful a declaration of moral purpose as any act a human being can undertake. We learn in our tradition that as night descended at the end of humanity’s very first day on earth, Adam feared the darkness and wept. Then, God showed Adam how to make fire, and use its light and warmth to dispel the darkness. And never again did Adam need fear that which he could not see or understand, for he had now within himself the power to create light… and that is what we have been doing ever since. Sharing, studying, teaching, and traveling are among our greatest tools to kindle that light.
“May the Father of us all scatter light and not darkness upon our paths and make us useful here.”
George Washington
On a dark night I came upon a blind man carrying a torch. I asked him why he had need of it, after all he could not see. The blind man answered with these simple words, ‘I carry this light so that people may see me.”
Rabbi Yossi from the Talmud
Steven Lowenstein is an author and Rabbi of Congregation Am Shalom in Glencoe, IL www.amshalom.com
On the day they were created, Adam and Eve sinned and were expelled from the Garden. As the sun set and the world grew darker they said, “Because of our sin, the world is ending.”
They stayed up all night, praying to God. When the sun rose at dawn, relieved they said, “There is a path that the sun always follows. It goes down in the West and comes up again in the East. Perhaps it will do this every day for as long as we live.”
Adam offered a sacrifice to God in gratitude for the gift of the light. Before he died, he gave instructions to his son Seth to give thanks to God every day for the gift of sunlight. When Seth died, he gave the same instructions to his children, and they did to theirs. That is why we recite a blessing thanking God for the gift of sunlight in our morning prayers.
A second story…
When God finished creating the world, he had to find a place to hide the Primordial Light that is meant for the righteous. God knew that there was one place humans would never look. He decided to hide it inside every single human being.
Two stories: one about the light that appeared at the beginning of the world, and one about the light that is reserved for the righteous to enjoy at the very end of the world.
Let us appreciate the light in our lives and thank God for it every day, especially at the beginning of every year, for that is when the sun and the moon finish their yearly cycles and start all over again.
And when we do, too.
Rabbi Jack Riemer is the founding chair of the National Rabbinic Network, and among his colleagues, he is known as the “rabbi’s rabbi.”
They say if you want something done right, give it to a busy woman… and I have found that to be true in my life.
As the first Jewish woman elected to Congress from the state of Florida, I have been proud to represent my constituents in our state legislature and in the U.S. House of Representatives for more than 18 years. As Chair of the Democratic National Committee, I am so proud to help re-elect President Obama and elect Democrats throughout the country.
However, the job that has always been the most important to me is my role as mother to my three beautiful children: Rebecca, Jake, and Shelby. Returning to them after a hectic day is always the light I seek in my life.
But I believe family is a broader term, and that extends beyond our relatives to encompass the entirety of the Jewish people. To me, one of the most beautiful aspects of Judaism is the emphasis on the family at the core of all we do. Every milestone in our religion–be it celebrating a simcha or mourning a loss requires community, our family to be present. That is because for so many of us, our families are the source of joy, comfort, love, and light that we seek every day.
My husband and children are the reason I wake up every morning, thrilled to do the work I do. In return, I constantly strive to seek the positive policy change that will continue bringing light to their lives and to the lives of my constituents.
Debbie Wasserman Schultz is a Congresswoman from Florida and Chair of the Democratic National Committee.
When I was a teenager, I read every book I could find on meditation. Almost all of the books talked about enlightenment, which fascinated me. I thought it meant that if I meditated enough, something would suddenly change. I would see things differently, bend spoons, maybe even glow.
As my meditation practice grew and deepened, I found myself uninterested in Judaism and fell in love with Buddhism. Still inspired by the idea of enlightenment, my understanding of it matured and changed to include more kindness and compassion and less about telekinesis.
While spending a summer in India, I took daily Buddhist philosophy classes. Along with everyone else in the class, I always bowed and prostrated to the ground when the teacher walked into the room. One day, after weeks of classes, we were about to begin, and the teacher entered. I stood, and as everyone around me began to bow and prostrate, I froze. It felt like a light went on inside my heart, like my Jewish soul, aching for connection, was not comfortable bowing in that context.
That was the beginning of my journey to connect my meditation practice to my Judaism and when I began to seek out teachers and teachings of Jewish meditation. My search for enlightenment brought me to a Jewish meditation practice that I now see as a path of cultivating tikkun olam (repairing the world) from the inside out, which feels pretty enlightened to me.
Alison Laichter is a teacher, urban planner, Brooklynite, and the Executive Director of the Jewish Meditation Center. www.jmcbrooklyn.org
Talking about enlightenment — at least in spiritual terms — doesn’t come easily to me. My upbringing was totally, passionately, proudly secular. We “modern” Jews held no truck with the “old fashioned” types who went to temple, spoke to God, became “enlightened.”
Except … I’m remembering one evening, back when I was five or so, when New York City — my hometown — experienced a blackout. As it happened, the blackout occurred during the most awkward time of my week: when my dad “returned” me to my mom, who had won custody after a bitter divorce battle. The handoff never went smoothly — often there would be yelling, sometimes even tears. As Dad and I rode the subway on our way to Mom’s apartment, he would regale me with her failures as a wife, as a mother, as a human being.
But on this night our train — and all the noises — suddenly stopped. And by the time Dad and I had made our way to Mom’s apartment, walking for miles through sidewalks thronged with our fellow New Yorkers, it was quite late indeed. What a shock it was to see how Mom greeted us: hugs and kisses for me and for Dad, tears of joyful relief! Together — together — my parents lit candles, hunted down batteries, made snacks from our strangely silent fridge.
Was this — in our family’s own irreligious way — a moment of enlightenment? Looking back through the years, I see the three of us laughing in the candlelight and I say: yes.
Josh Kornbluth is a comic monologuist who lives in Berkeley with his wife and son. You can follow his doings at www.JoshKornbluth.com.
Light, ultimately, is an expression of oneness. Life, ultimately, is about yearning toward that oneness.
There is an incredible story about a rabbi named Meir who lived 1,900 years ago. Rabbi Meir was a scribe. He meticulously wrote out the precious words of the Torah. Each letter was written with ultimate care. No mistakes were tolerated. But Rabbi Meir’s Torah didn’t look like everyone else’s. Right after Adam and Eve sinned and God cursed them, the Torah tells us: “God made coats of skin for Adam and for his wife…(Gen 3:21).”
Rabbi Meir’s Torah read: “God made coats of light for Adam and his wife…” (Genesis Rabbah 20:12). How could this be?
In Hebrew the word for skin “’or” sounds a lot like the word for light “or”. In fact, only one letter separates them – an ayin for an aleph. But that one letter makes all the difference. And that one letter is what Rabbi Meir switched in his Torah. This wasn’t just a random error, but a statement about the essence of life. In Hebrew, each letter has a numerical value. Ayin, the first letter of “skin,” is 70. Aleph, the first letter of “light,” is 1. Rabbi Meir switched from many to one. For the rabbis, 70 is the ultimate symbol of dis-unity. The world is filled with 70 nations. People speak 70 languages. But the real goal is to unify—to return to the light, to the one.
Rabbi Meir’s name literally means “shows light.” In his Torah, he did exactly that, reminding us that dis-unity is only skin deep. The opportunity to renew, to respond to curses with light, to yearn toward a world of one, is the real blessing of human life.
Rabbi Elie Kaunfer is executive director of Mechon Hadar and author of Empowered Judaism: What Independent Minyanim Can Teach Us about Building Vibrant Jewish Communities. www.mechonhadar.org.
Someone told me years ago that we musicians do our shows for free. The fee we receive, she explained, covers the OTHER 22 hours of the day. Planes, vans, lumpy pillows, filthy dressing rooms: it’s not the glamorous life that people think. But I wouldn’t trade a moment of it. Occasionally, even in the harshest situations, a beam of pure light can reveal itself.
I was in a dressing room one night in London. Graffiti adorned the walls—scribblings, obscenities and off-the-wall comments. My eyes wandered. Then I saw it. Three sentences written in faded black pen, old enough to lose their luster, but strong nevertheless:
Need Nothing.
Want Everything.
And choose what comes your way.
It was anonymous, and about the only positive entry out of hundreds. But something about these three little lines spoke to me in a way that a prayer or self-help book hasn’t, and in such a clear way. It’s become my mantra. Detach from expectations, but go for it ALL, nonetheless. And all the while, know it’s ME who has the ultimate say in how my life unfolds.
I’ll never know who wrote these words. But I’m grateful they were there and thankful that I noticed them amidst all the meaningless chatter. In a way, it’s what we all strive to do on a daily basis, as we look for those hidden messages of light in an increasingly darkened world. They make all the difference and can be found in the most unlikely of places.
Dave Koz is a six-time Grammy-nominated saxophonist, composer, radio show host and the global ambassador for The Starlight Children’s Foundation. www.davekoz.com
“There is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.”
~ Leonard Cohen
Once again Moses is wearing himself out carrying the burden of the Jewish people on his shoulders. God intervenes by taking some of the spirit that is in Moses and sharing it with others. How can this happen without diminishing Moses? Commenting on Numbers 11:17, Rashi says, “He was like a light that is placed in a candlestick from which everybody lights his lamps, and yet its illuminating power is not diminished.”
I love to seek the light of holiness by studying sacred texts or by sitting in contemplative practice, but the most powerful way to be bathed in light is by serving others.
Giving our light to others might start close to home by helping our neighbors who are struggling mightily during these tough economic times. Our service might move us far from home as well—to spend our vacation helping out in south Tel Aviv slums or treating patients in one of Haiti’s tent cities.
Against a secular culture that places each individual at the center of the universe, we can choose to be part of something larger than just ourselves. Taking responsibility for others lifts us out of the indulgence and narrowness of self, connecting us to a world of meaning and light. Rebuilding broken lives in the developing world is surely a part of our sacred calling, as is caring for our Jewish elders in Brighton Beach.
In these days of Elul and beyond, we don’t have to go far seeking some extra light; all we have to do is give others some of ours.
Rick Jacobs is the rabbi of Westchester Reform Temple in Scarsdale, New York and the President-Elect of the Union for Reform Judaism. www.urj.org
This past winter, I paid a visit to my elderly aunt–my late father’s younger sister–with whom I am very close. I have learned some of my greatest life lessons from her. Shirley lives in a stately home on a tree-lined street in Brookline, Massachusetts, where the phone never stops ringing. She is a mother of four, grandmother of sixteen, great-grandmother of forty-five and counting. Recently widowed, she had just put her home on the market when, during a visit to a daughter in Chicago, a pipe burst, flooding several floors full of antiques and artwork. A significant part of that elegant home had been —turned, in her words, into “a barn.” So she had just begun the process, arduous for anyone much less an octogenarian, of filing insurance claims and rebuilding her home.
“Come in, darling!” She swept me into what had once been her living room. “It’s a mess, isn’t it? But look how lucky we were. None of Uncle Moe’s books were damaged.”
I looked at her. Lucky? This wouldn’t have been my definition of lucky.
“I was just writing a letter to the insurance company,” she went on to say.
Now, in my experience, letters to insurance companies tend to be requests, or complaints. But no.
“I wanted to let the president of the company know how wonderful his people have been to me.”
I watched my aunt, beautiful, beaming, lit from within. All her life she has sought light. She has looked for only the good in others, and they, in turn, have become all the better for it. As have I.
Dani Shapiro is the bestselling author of seven books, including the memoirs Devotion and Slow Motion. www.danishapiro.com
When my daughter was just shy of her first birthday, we joined a toddler class. Every week, a dozen or so parents and the instructor would quietly observe the children, in an effort to raise “authentic” and “competent” human beings, with a minimum of intervention.
One afternoon, a little boy toppled off a slide and began to cry. His startled father hugged the child and said in a comforting tone, “You’re all right.” A moment passed. Then the instructor said, “Children don’t cry when they’re all right.” It seemed harsh at the time. But I soon realized that it wasn’t empathy that was being discouraged; it was telling even a small child what he was supposed to feel.
Each week, the instructor would prepare a snack area on the floor. If a child wanted bananas and juice, he or she had to put aside the toys, sit down, and put on a bib. It was totally optional. But there were requirements. And it was astonishing to watch as these tiny children made their choices. Some went in for the snack in the first or second week. Others took longer. All of them got there eventually.
I’ll never forget how I felt the first time my daughter had the snack. Crazy as it sounds, I was really moved by her little act of independence and the obvious satisfaction it gave her. Now, as my children near adolescence, I try to remember that I can guide them, but I can’t tell them what to think or feel. I can try to teach them to make good choices, but ultimately, they must be trusted to choose. And if they know what they want – if they can learn to recognize that special light inside themselves—and if they are brave enough to follow it—they will be satisfied.
And that will be enough for me.
Dee Dee Myers has the distinction of being the first woman to serve as the White House Press Secretary. She is currently a Managing Director at The Glover Park Group, a Washington D.C. based public affairs firm. www.gloverparkgroup.com
Our sages tell us that the first time Adam saw the sun go down, he was terrified. He had seen day, but had never experienced the night.God took pity on him and gave him two stones to rub together in order to create fire. The name of one stone was afelah, darkness, and the other maveth, death. As the spark emerged, Adam said, “Blessed be the Creator of light.” Out of darkness and death, the first human being realized that we can create light.
On the High Holidays we think back over the difficulties and even the tragedies that have befallen us in the past year. We have lost people we love, done things we regret, been hurt and saddened by life. Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur arrive to remind us that our task in this world is to strike a spark, to carry light in the shadows.
“We work in the dark—do what we can—we give what we have. Our doubt is our passion, and our passion is our task,” wrote the great novelist Henry James. We all work in darkness, unknowing, uncertain; but if we do what we can, our passion can ignite each other’s souls. Light does not erase difficulty or doubt or even death. But it allows us to seek blessing: Blessed be God, who grants us memory, and gives us light.
David Wolpe at the time of this writing had close to 18,000 followers on Facebook. He is the rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles, California. www.facebook.com/RabbiWolpe
Welcome to the seventh volume of Jewels of Elul. In just a few days you and tens of thousands of people around the world will begin receiving daily inspirations for the upcoming Holy Days. Here is my introduction.
In recent times scientists have acknowledged the importance of light, even naming a new syndrome, Seasonal Affective Disorder, to describe the ways in which people suffer from lack of light during winter months. Our tradition recognized the significance of light thousands of years earlier, commanding us to welcome the Sabbath and Holy days with the lighting of lights.
The writer Gabriel García Márquez shares:
“If for an instant God were to forget that I am rag doll and gifted me with a piece of life… I would sleep little, dream more, understanding that for each minute we close our eyes we lose sixty seconds of Light.”
To the writers and people involved in bringing Jewels of Elul Volume 7 to life, I extend my deepest thanks. It has been an honor to be a gatherer of your light.
Please pass these Jewels on to your family and friends, answer one of the “Questions of the Day” and use the coming month of Elul as a time of growth.
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Let there be Light!
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